Some people feel lonely after they enter the college. Maybe they feel distressed because of having dinner or going to class on their own. They try to cater to everyone, but they don't know which can make themselves more lonely because they lose their character.
As far as I'm concerned, the best way to change this situation is to enjoy loneliness. We can become calm and rational when we stay alone. Learning to enjoy loneliness enable everyone to grow up.
In the world of adults, nobody care of you. So you do not have to change yourself to cater other. The people who respected is not those who can get on well with others, but those who can not only work hard but also be responsible for their talks and be strick with themselves.
In a word, let's become more powerful in solitude!